November 11th Veteran's Day
This is the first time I've been a Guest Blogger, so any mistakes are my own and not the owner of this Blog.
On Veteran's Day, I held a Bone Marrow Registry Drive at San Jose State University. The crowd was there, it was a nail biter of a game, but I was there for their Marrow!!!
The University cooperated fully, the local news papers announced my event, I had 8 ROTC Cadets man my tables. For the most part, the weather cooperated too. Only a few sprinkles to wet us down.
The highlight of my day was that I was able to meet Veterans who fought in battles from World War II to Korea to Viet Nam to Iraq. I've got to tell you, I was humbled by the experience. One of the guys that's at my usual tail gate party is an Army Vet. He finally got the Viet Nam Veteran's cap and wore it Saturday. I gave him a big hug and thanked him for his service. He was floored. He said that was the first time anybody had thanked him. He hasn't spoken about the war since he got back in 1966. We do our Veterans a great disservice by not acknowledging their contributions. I continue to thank all the veterans I know and even those I don't personally know for their commitment and sacrifice. I met a 22 year old Marine who's been back from Iraq for 2 months. He was so willing to be a marrow donor, he went and got a bunch of his buddies and they came in a group. He wants updates on Justin, so I gave him my card and a great big hug and thanked him for being a Vet. There was a Navy Command Master Chief who kept saluting me. He was a Hoot!!! (probably had a couple of sips too many from the vino bottle, but he was funny as hell.)
I need to thank Erika Mares at the San Jose State Athletic Department and Cesar Gonzalez, Captain USAF for allowing me to set up inside the stadium area and to staff my drive. I would also like to thank my husband, Bernard, for his patience and understanding in assisting me with my drives and all the lifting, toting and transporting these drives incur. Ginger Parish for the "GREAT" shirt, Mary Anne Ross for allowing me to reprint her article about Justin, Adele at Soldiers Angels and Stretch DeMay for printing up my poster boards to advertise the story. Anyone I have forgotten to thank was an error on the part of my aging brain, it doesn't mean I don't appreciate all that you've done to help with this project, it just means my brain is on overload and something important fell out, but all the trivia stayed (i.e. Kelly Bundy one thought goes in and one falls out.)
Let me cut to the chase before I lose anyone's interest here. I had 45 donors!!!! Whooo Hooo that's good on a day of rain, football and beer.
I've got 3 more drives scheduled in the near future: 11/18 at the Los Banos Fire Station #2, 12/2 at the San Jose State vs. Fresno State Football game, 12/5 at NAS LeMoore. If you're interested in donating or participating please call (408) 654-7900 x110 or e-mail me.
I've spoken with Justin's Mom a couple of times recently and have some e-mail to share with the group:
10/24/06
Dear Jan,
Hi, our daughter sent us your recent email. You are outrageously funny and one of Justin's "earth angels". Thank you so very much for your efforts. We are so grateful for folks such as yourself. Justin is blessed.
Justin is not able to forward his address to the public, however, I know everyone still wants to send cards. How about if they send them to you and we will send them to Justin periodically.
As an update, Justin had his transplant on October 20th and is doing well; some bouts of severe nausea and diarrhea and headaches, but very much on target.
Prayers are still needed for complete recovery of Justin and words of encouragement for Suzanne. As a newly wed, she has certainly experienced the "for worse and in sickness" part of her vows. Suzanne has been and continues to be his caregiver and his rock. She is marvelous and they deserve so much more out of life.
As for his donor, a life saver and just an outstanding human being; as Justin's Mom, I owe her my life. We are so eternally grateful to her and pray that someday she will agree to meet her U.S. family. Continue your fight for donor awareness and prayers for Justin. You and your friends can consider yourselves part of our family. Wouldn't it be wonderful to have a big celebration of life when Justin is well.
I'm sure Justin will appreciate the photos and messages you have collected from your drives. Please feel free to keep in touch.
God Bless You,
Justin’s Mom
11/6/06
Hi Jan,
Nope, we haven't gone out to visit yet. We are planning to go out the day after Christmas and stay for a couple of weeks. Justin was released from the hospital yesterday and will now be treated as an out patient for the next three to four months.
Suzanne will really enjoy a spa treatment after all that she has gone through, and I know that Justin will enjoy knowing that she is getting a special treat for all that she has done for him. I really hope you can pull it off. Your alternate plan of a dinner sounds wonderful also.
Thanks so much for your concern and help.
Justin’s Mom
On the dollars and cents side of all of this....
If you are interested in contributing to the Spa day for Suzanne (Justin's Wife) please contact me by e-mail at
jalbertie@ebusinessdesign.com. I'm still collecting for an all day spa treatment for her to have a little down time just for her. Anything I collect above the cost of the spa package, will be sent to Justin and Suzanne for a first wedding anniversary - a romantic dinner - in January.
For those of you who would like to help with the cost of getting Justin's parents out to see him, you can make your donations to Soldiers Angels.
http://www.soldiersangels.org/Justin_Navy_Seal.phpThanks to all.
Hoo Yah!!
Jan Albertie